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After the Rain…

by Amber on March 24, 2012

Last night we had another one of those fabulous Indiana storms. The kind that add the tune of tornado sirens to the air for more than an hour, and send me and mine running for the scant protection of the half bath under the stairs.

It was not the ideal way to start the weekend, to be sure. Especially since our dog (also in the little bathroom with us) had gas, and the toddler had a diaper that was trying to fill with poo.

But survive we did—and we didn’t even have to attempt to protect ourselves with the cast iron pots my husband figured could shield our heads if worst came to worst.

And then? Then the sun came out. Rainbows appeared (really). And Tori discovered the puddles it left behind.

She started in a small one.

Tori starts cautiously, with the smallest puddle.

Tori dips her foot into the first, minor league puddle.

But then she discovered the drainage ditch at the back of the yard. The one that floods after a big rain and rushes with the current of a real river. After that? It was game on.

Tori dips her foot in the drainage ditch.

Cautiously, she dipped her toes in the running water.

 

Tori grinned at the water on her toes.

Surprise! The water's cold.

But she didn’t really want to play in the water by herself. And she wasn’t brave enough to wander out into the middle without holding my hand.

Which is why, a few minutes later, I found myself shoeless, and with my jeans rolled up to my knees, stomping in the muddy water.

Happy feet in the water

You're never too old to jump in puddles, are you?

At first, I was reluctant, and merely stood there. But after Tori looked up at me imploringly and said “stomp, mommy,” I got into the spirit of things.

I stamped cautiously a few times. But after I got used to the feel of mud seeping between my toes, I threw off my stuffy sense of decorum and Tori and I jumped and stomped and splashed our hearts out.

Before long, the water looked like chocolate milk (or so Tori told me). And our legs were speckled with mud.

But we were both grinning from ear to ear. And I? Had forgotten about the horror of the tornado siren entirely.

So if it’s been a while since you jumped in puddles, I suggest you go outside right now and find one. If you feel silly, bring a kid with you. But I promise, you won’t regret the splish-splashing, mud-speckling fun.

Those kids, they’re on to something. We should follow their example more often.

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Christmas Crazies Be Gone!

by Amber on December 19, 2011

Every year, I say I’m not going to do it. I say I’m not going to get stressed out. That I’m not going to worry if I can’t do it all. That I’m just going to focus on keeping the Christmas Spirit alive and well—whether or not all goes as planned.

Yeah right.

Like every other mom on the face of the planet, I’m committed to doing everything possible to giving Tori the Best. Christmas. Ever!

So I start making lists. Lists of holiday activities we must do, crafts we must create, cookies we must bake, presents I have to buy… it quickly gets out of control.

And those lists? Are crazy making. Guilt inducing. After all, what would the other moms say if they knew we haven’t done any holiday baking? And that there isn’t a single string of popcorn strung on the tree? And that only one window on our Advent calendar has actually been opened?

I know that chances are, they’d say “me too.” But the crazy lady that lives in my head tends to forget that.

So right now, I’m putting her on notice. There will be no more Screaming Guilt Trips in my head. No more could’ve would’ve should’ves.

Because at the end of the day, none of that stuff matters. It’s moments like this that do:

Tori helps Daddy put up the Christmas lights.

As long as I keep giving her things to smile about, I'm doing my job.

Besides, I’ll be seeing my grandmother in a few days. She’ll do enough guilt tripping to last me the whole year through.

Now, would someone please pass me the eggnog?

 

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The Quest For the Perfect Family Photo.

December 14, 2011
Hurray for Lisa Gupton

I have an almost pathological need to take pictures. This is expected, of course. As a blogger, I’m supposed to document everything. But my compulsion goes deeper than that. There are no pictures of me until about age, I don’t know, five? And I do mean none. I could very well be adopted (as my [...]

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The Great Halloween Costume Caper

November 2, 2011
Kermit wore the cape.

For weeks, when we asked Tori what she wanted to be for Halloween, she said one of two things: superhero or princess. So, being the overachieving parents we are, we decided to make her a Superhero Princess costume. Said costume started with a sparkly red cape. Included a floofy red white and blue tutu. It [...]

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A Modern Day Fairy Tale

October 24, 2011
Brian and Amber go to prom

Once upon a time, a girl met a boy in her Global Village class during her senior year of high school. They spent the next few months giggling their way through class, learning a lot about each other, but almost nothing about the globe. Then one day (the day after Valentine’s Day), the boy called [...]

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Mostly Wordless Wednesday: Magic Fish

October 5, 2011
carp in the Oliver WInery pond

It was a rainy Saturday afternoon. The Toddler was running circles around the living room. The in-laws were looking bored. And I? Just needed to get out of the house. So we went to the winery. Oliver Winery, for anyone wondering. For most, the highlight of a winery trip would be the wine. Or, more [...]

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